Having Sex With a Sex Doll

It perhaps won’t surprise you to hear that one of the most common questions that we’re asked is what having sex with a sex doll is really like. Sure, you may have read that you’re guaranteed mind blowing orgasms and are assured of total freedom to live out every kinky fantasy or desire you’ve ever had – in exactly the way you imagined, exactly when you want to – but there’s also more practical considerations that you may be wondering about. 

What does it feel like? is another popular question. How different does having sex with a sex doll feel physically to having sex with a human partner? There’s also the other aspect of having sex with a doll too, such as how to get started, how to position the doll and prepare your toy to ensure you have the hottest, most pleasurable experience possible. 

Before we delve into this ultimate guide to having the best sex possible with your new sex doll, remember that your doll is designed entirely for your pleasure. You’ve spent time researching your dream sex doll, you’ve taken care to customize your doll to suit your tastes and turn ons so do what feels good to you. Just because one person enjoys having sex with a sex doll one way, doesn’t meal that it’ll rock your world to the same degree so it’s always worth taking the time to experiment and discover what you most enjoy. That is after all, half the fun! 

Getting in the mood to have sex with a sex doll 

As we just covered, sex is a very personal thing, and your own preferences are what matter most. Some people like to set the scene and draw out the foreplay to ramp up their excitement, while others prefer fast and hard, instant gratification. 

Figuring out the formula for the best way to have sex with a sex doll comes down to your own preferences and predilections. If you’re looking for companionship from your doll, you might enjoy the process of dressing your doll, picking out music and just spending time enjoying the rituals before sex. 

If your interest lies more in the freedom to live your wildest fantasies with the best masturbation aid ever invented, delayed gratification might not work for you. The great thing about having sex with a sex doll is that the experience can be whatever you want it to be. 

That said, there are a few tips (OK, a lot!) that we can share to help you extract the maximum level of toe-curling pleasure from your doll, whether you’re popping your cherry and having sex with a doll for the first time or are just looking for a few new tips and tricks to keep things feeling fresh and exciting. 

Here are our top tips: 

1. Warm up your doll beforehand

When it comes to having the best sex possible with your new sex doll, a little preparation is key. All of our sex dolls are made from the highest quality materials so the doll feels nice to the touch, but you can ramp that up further by warming up your doll a little before use, so he or she feels warm when playtime begins. One way you can do this without damaging your doll is simply to place him or her under a heated electric blanket for 10 to 20 minutes. This means that when you come to penetrating your doll (or having your doll penetrate you) you won’t be sliding in to something cold and unwelcoming. A little heat will bring your doll to life, with a warm, realistic feeling whatever you’re in the mood for. 

1. Make sure your doll is clean

There’s nothing sexy about throwing good hygiene to the wind so make sure your doll is nice and clean before you get started. This is easily and quickly done. Your doll will typically have three options for penetration and with each of these options comes a removable sleeve. Regardless of whether you want oral, anal, or vaginal sex, simply remove the penetration sleeve and clean it using a water-based toy cleaner. This sleeve is made of special silicone material, so it feels just like the real thing and totally out of this world when used. After a quick clean, just re-insert so everything is ready for having sex with your sex doll. 

1. Have some lubricant handy 

A little bit of lubricant can transform how sex with your doll feels. Couple this with the pre-heating we mentioned in tip one and you might begin to image how incredible your doll’s warm, wet and slippery openings are going to feel… Just be sure to choose a water-based lubricant to ensure that the silicone or TPE material isn’t damaged. Oil or silicone-based lubricants should be avoided as they could damage the surface of your sex doll or the removable sleeve, which could mean you then need to buy a replacement. 

Too much of a good thing is possible though so rather than applying more and more lube as your session progresses, try adding a little water instead to allow the lubricant already inserted into the sleeve to go further.

1. Position your doll correctly 

Many of our dolls can be placed in a standing position but you’ll want to give a little bit of thought to exactly how and where you’ll put your doll. This ensures that you can avoid any accidental damage to your doll but is also a way to get your doll into the right position for having sex so you don’t need to stop mid-way through to rearrange. 

Many people prefer to position their doll on a bed or flat surface the first couple of times but once you’re used to having sex with a sex doll, you can be more creative and experimental using other surfaces such as a dining chair or table. A female doll sat on a chair or bed could be the perfect height for oral sex for example. Whereas if you have a male doll and want to be in complete control of depth and angle, standing the doll up gives you a whole host of potential positions to enjoy. Just keep in mind that although your doll will have a sturdy metal skeleton, it’s not quite as robust as human bones so try and select positions that don’t place your full weight on the doll.

If you want to mix things up a little, you could also place your doll in the tub or standing in the shower. 

1. Pick an outfit 

Clothing can be incredibly erotic and bring fantasies to life so take the time to dress your doll in garments that you find to be a turn on. Whether that’s a cheerleader outfit, a flight attendant uniform, a bikini, or sexy lingerie, dressing your doll up can help you to fulfil your every fantasy and desire. 

Don’t forget, you can also accessorize your doll as well as part of the dress up process. If bondage gets your hot under the collar, add some handcuffs, cuffs, a collar and lead or a harness for example. The great thing about dressing your doll is he or she isn’t going to say no, it’s all about you and your pleasure. 

1. Get into the right headspace

Having sex with a sex doll can be fast and frantic or long and slow – it’s up to you. But just as you mighty with a human partner, taking some time to get into the right headspace and mood can seriously up the ante. How you get into the right headspace will be entirely personal to you and what works for one person won’t work for another but, some of the processes we have outlined here could well form part of that. 

For example, dressing your doll, choosing exactly the right outfit and taking time to appreciate how hot your doll looks could take you from relaxed to turned on. 

Likewise, smells can be evocative so you if there’s a particular scent that drives you wild, apply that perfume or cologne to your doll. Take care to only spray onto clothing, rather than the doll however, so as not to damage the ultra-realistic silicone material.  

You may want to play music or watch porn or read erotic literature as part of your build-up. Try different approaches to see what is most effective when it comes to foreplay to ensure you’re creating a sizzling hot, long-lasting experience that lives up to your every fantasy. 

1. Storage and maintenance

Storage and maintenance are part and parcel of ensuring your doll remains in top condition and ready for anything, on demand. Try not to leave your doll stored while wearing tight clothes or accessories. Remove these so they don’t mark or distort the shape of the doll and always clean after use. 

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